Joke Emails: Love 'em or Hate 'em

I usually just pass on joke emails that I think are funny and worthy of passing on, this one I felt was worthy of sharing on my blog. I have not done this before, but this really made me laugh and think. Yes, I know, I am one of those rare breed of people who actually ENJOY joke emails. Some people curse people like me. But, I love that my friends care enough to want to make me smile at some point during my day. And I enjoy returning the favor when possible. Perhaps I will change my mind when I have a "real" job and don't just sit around eating Bon-Bons all day (as all stay-at-home-moms do). ; )

So here it is:

19 THINGS THAT TOOK ME ALMOST 50 YEARS TO LEARN

1. Never, under any circumstances, take a sleeping pill and a laxative on the same night.

2. If you had to identify, in one word, the reason why the human race has not achieved, and never will achieve, its full potential, that word would be "meetings."

3. There is a very fine line between "hobby" and "mental illness."

4. People who want to share their religious views with you almost never want you to share yours with them.

5. Assuming there is a God, who created the entire universe with all of its glories, if he decides to deliver a message to humanity, he WILL NOT use, as his messenger, a person on cable TV with a bad hair style.

6. You should not confuse your career with your life.

7. No matter what happens, somebody will find a way to take it too seriously.

8. When trouble arises and things look bad, there is always one individual who perceives a solution and is willing to take command. Very often, that individual is crazy.

9. Nobody cares if you can't dance well. Just get up and dance.

10. Never lick a steak knife.

11. Take out the fortune before you eat the cookie.

12. The most destructive force in the universe is gossip.

13. You will never find anybody who can give you a clear and compelling reason why we observe daylight savings time.

14. You should never say anything to a woman that even remotely suggests that you think she's pregnant unless you can see an actual baby emerging from her at that moment.

15. There comes a time when you should stop expecting other people to make a big deal about your birthday. That time is age eleven.

16. The one thing that unites all human beings, regardless of age, gender, religion, economic status or ethnic background, is that, deep down inside, we ALL believe that we are above average drivers.

17. The main accomplishment of almost all organized protests is to annoy people who are not in them.

18. A person who is nice to you, but rude to the waiter, is not a nice person. (This is very important. Pay attention. It never fails.)

19. Your friends love you anyway.

Dog-isms

Introducing the newest member of our family, Belle!!! We adopted her when we were in Texas. She is perfect in every way (well almost). Below, she poses with her siblings.

Soooo CUTE!!!



















Dog-isms
(Some "lessons to live by" inspired by the very special dogs in my life.)

- Find a way to lick your OWN wounds.

- If you have an itch, scratch it, no matter where you are or what your doing.

- Sleep when you can, roam when you can, play when you can, fight when you must.

- Showing your love everyday with affectionate actions speaks louder than saying it with actual words.

- No matter how long it is, if you stay at the end of your leash, you will always be choked.

- Establish a dominant stance when possible, but be submissive when necessary.

- Appearing confident can be your best protection when strangers are near.

- Wake up your family with a kiss on the face every morning.

Charmed

(Deep Voiced Announcer) - This Tender Moment is brought to you today by Caasmom's review of her journals and organization of a few hundred photos.
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Someone once told me I have had a charmed life. For this and more, I will keep this person in a special place in my heart forever for giving me the gift of that compliment.

It was more than just an observation, it is a thought that I revisit when I am feeling that my life, well, sucks. I AM truly blessed and have had lots of luck throughout my life. There have been some insignificant and some fairly life altering events that seem to have been touch by this charmed aura that luckily surrounds me. (::knocks on wood::)

I revisit this thought today once again as a look back on the pictures of my children, stories of my life, events that have taken place, friends that have graced my life and I realize how true it is. I write this blog because I truly feel it is important to recognize and give thanks for our blessings on a daily (sometimes hourly when necessary) basis.

I only hope that all of this is somehow connected to genetics and has been passed on to my precious angels.

Halloween 2005

As requested, Halloween pictures.

I think I like these better than the school pics. (hehe, JK)

All three spooky kids.

The Thing from Fantastic Four (CJ)

Princess BA with Matilda (her Build a Bear)

(BB) Being Batman is a very serious job.

Friends Halloween get together.

Yes, that is me, ugh!

The Boys School Pictures

There is really nothing I can say, a picture is worth a thousand words, right?!?!

Mommy Brain

Please try to not judge my blogs too harshly before reading this entry. I am not a dim woman. I am very well educated, socially capable, and can easily exhibit common sense when making decisions. On a daily basis, I seem to have it all together.

But with the incessant feeding of children's television programming and movies into my brain, talking to pre-schoolers the majority of my time, and doing it all pretty much on my own, I AM LOSING MY MIND!!!! It is true, the old adage, if you don't use it, you lose it. I can literally feel my brain melting away, cells disappearing, waves going still. I feel so dumb sometimes. I call it "mommy brain".

I apparently can be easily influenced which was obvious when I informed my husband the other day that I was "going potty" when he called for me from the other room. He quickly pointed out that it was not necessary to use polite kiddy language with him. It was embarrassing because I began to wonder when I have spoke to other adults like a child. I know I am not the only mom who feels this way, it just seems like it sometimes. However I think most other people seem like they have it together more than they actually do, though. I hope that is true for me. Anyway...

I just remember being proud of my words as a writer and speaker, I have a degree in English for heavens sake!!! Yet my mind frequently goes blank when I need to recall even the simplest thought or word, like "fork" or "slide" or my children's names. I have to call roll before I get to the name of the kid I need to yell at. I have a love and passion for grammar, I aced it in college. Yet even typing a blog article has become difficult for me and I seem unable to remember all the rules. I also seem to over use the same words because I am just unable to recall synonyms.

So I am thinking, did I waste my time and money on an education that seems to be disappearing from my cranium faster than you can say "Sesame Street"?

My Own Take

Another blogger used his kids' book titles to come up with a list of pick up lines, absolutely hilarious!!! (check it out on "Laid Off Dad" in my links). So I decided to try my hand at it by taking a look at our own kids' library, this is what I came up with:


(For those who enjoy eating at the "Y")
"If You Give a Moose a Muffin..."

(For the foreplay challenged)
"Ready or Not, Here I Come!"

(For the Viagra users)
"Dr. Seuss, Pops Up!"

(For those late night quickies)
"Once Upon a Time, The End (Asleep in 60 Seconds)"

(For the role players)
"Tickle the Duck"

(For the ladies)
"I Need a Snake"

(For our little friends)
"Bob the Builder: Can We Find It?"

(For our NOT SO little friends)
"Billy is A Big Boy!"

Finally...
(For the swingers)
"We Can Share!"

Personal Space PLEASE!!!

My kids have an issue. They are really quite behaved with me and if they crawl all over me, I am their mom I don't mind. Unfortunately, NO ONE will ever know this because as soon as they get around other people, they become leaches.

They have no concept of personal space. They also do not know a stranger. Everyone is their friend. This happens when we go out with people, when they visit our house or in public. If I talk to someone and apparently know them, they become fair game for my children affection. Let me clarify for those with their heads in the gutters, I am NOT talking about anything inappropriate by any means! (hugs, sitting in lap, sitting close, etc)

I wonder if this was my fault. Did I hold them too much? Did I allow too much affection? If so, I would have never thought in a million years that too much attention or affection toward or allowed from my children would have eventually turned into a behavior issue. Where did I go wrong?

So my question is, do people have a problem with children invading their personal space, whether they HONESTLY like kids or not? How would they prefer the parents handle it? Should I insist that my kids quit hugging or sitting close, even if the person says "no, its fine, its ok"? Any when people say this, are they just being nice or are they really ok with this? Also, do any other parents out there have this problem too?

I cannot be an unbiased judge of this because they are my kids AND I love kids and honestly do not mind children being close. I find it very sweet, charming and adorable.

Just a few thoughts and questions brought on by a visit from DC Cookie and another friend last night. Especially with females, my kids are very affectionate. What can I say, they are mommy's sweet babies!

Discipline without shouting? Spanking? Huh?

With the age of my children growing larger, so does my patience grow thinner.

After a very honest discussion with some of my sister's in 'Twindom' on Thursday night I realized, once again, that I am not the only one who has problems with trying to balance a PEACEFUL, yet EFFECTIVE, form of disciplining our multiples without shouting or even spanking. Which is why I love to go out with them, feeling apart of a group is always more satisfying than feeling alone in any situation. I always walk away feeling refreshed and empowered. Thank you ladies!!!

Anyway, I decided that I needed to do some research, AGAIN, on discipline to see if there is something more out there to help those of us who truly want a more peaceful relationship with our children. Usually I only search child care in general, but this time I found something specifically catering to the mom's of multiples out there.

It is a group of three book from the authors and experts at Twins Magazine. It is a Discipline Packet that covers topics of dealing with the difficult task of parenting multiples so they can become the glowing examples of angelic behavior that they are in our sweetest dreams!

I can't say that I can or am willing to practice all the suggestions, but I know I am always up to learning any new technique that MAY make my job as a MOM a little easier.

Here is the link if you want to check it out: http://www.twinsmagazine.com/discipline_packet.html

OMG Has it REALLY been over a month!?!?!?!?

So much of my life has changed in the last month and a half. So much on which I need to catch up.

First of all, what caused my absence? We had our anniversary cruise at the end of August. It was PERFECT!!! Then we came home and CJ, my five year old, started Kindergarten, YEAH!!!!! I must admit it is nice to have him occupied the majority of the day. Then BB, my boy twin started half day pre-school, now it is even better to have two occupied most of the day. So now it is just me and my girl, BA. Oh, what a girly girl she has become. We enjoy shopping and getting manicures and pedicures. We have a blast together. She is also taking some classes at school and at the Rec-center like gardening and ballet. Having just one all day is a lot like having none, when compared to lugging around three to run errands. So life has gotten much easier, it has just taken a little time to get used to our new schedule, hence the absence.

Here are some photos from the past month and a half. Us on our cruise, CJ's first day of school, BB's first day of school, and BA's first day of ballet. (Proud MOM here, can ya tell? hehe)

Twin Researcher, Dr. Nancy Segal

I just wanted to pass along the following information to other MOM's, especially if you have identical twins. For the past two years, my twins' club National Organization for Mom's of Twins Club (NOMOTC) Representative has worked with researchers through NOMOTC and sent us this information about Dr. Nancy Segal. Worth checking out.

"Many studies are ongoing involving multiples, and one of the leading researchers is Dr. Nancy Segal. She has a new book out titled, Indivisible by Two: Lives of Extraordinary Twins, and is doing a book tour. She is also author of Entwined Lives: Twins and what they tell us about Human Behavior. Not only is she a researcher, but also an identical twin.

For anyone interested, here's a tv/radio schedule:

*Wednesday, 8/17: Good Morning America (ABC)---segment airs at about 8:00 a.m.

*Friday, 8/19: National Public Radio, DC area (Diane Rehm Show interview with Steve Roberts) 11:00- noon

*Friday, 9/16: Oprah Winfrey Show (tentative date check local times; this show was taped last February, so will not refer to the new book)

*Thursday, 9/22 NPR (Air Talk); 11:30 - noon, Pacific time---check local times"

Hope you find this helpful!

Our Aluminum/Tin Anniversary!

HAPPY 10TH ANNIVERSARY SWEETIE!!!

Traditionally, this is the aluminum/tin anniversary. However, the Modern table states that it is the "diamond jewelry" anniversary. (I am hoping for the latter.)

Anyway, we are celebrating 10 years of marriage as of today!!!

Here is little of what the past 10 years have brought our way.


December 1994, our first Christmas. We had only been dating a few weeks, but he already told me we would be married someday. I knew he would be my husband after our first kiss, but I dared not say anything, until he said it first, of course. ; )








August 12, 1995 (just 8 months of dating and only 20 years old) we were married. A small, tasteful wedding, but very romantic. Truly the happiest day of my life, up until then.








May 30, 2000, first baby joined our family. After 5 glorious years as a duo, we were now a trio.







November 10, 2001, the twins graced us with their preemie presence. Just 17 months after the baby #1, our family grows to 5 (which is as large as it will ever be!).








September 2004, even after moving 1000 miles away (Texas to DC, a HUGE move) and making it through some pretty rough and tough times, I am more in love with this man than I ever thought, 10 years ago, I could have been. I only hope we can stick it out a few more decades. I LOVE YA HONEY-BEAR!!! Your are the best thing that ever happened to me! Thanks for, well, everything! XOXO

No luck on the job-front...UGH!!!

I took a slight break from blogging to peruse a time consuming, full-time job in itself, FINDING A JOB!!!! My frustration does not come from the job search process, my qualifications or my ability to get a job. The problem is the income. More specifically, the income I must have to make it even slightly worth going back to work. The price of child care is so incredibly high in this area (having three young children does not help either). It just does not make any sense to me AT ALL to pay someone else to take care my kids, for me to work ONLY to pay them to do so. I guess I am just a practical person like that, call me crazy!

I am not greedy or money hungry in the slightest (anyone who KNOWS me knows this is true). I just want to bring home a little extra money (after paying for child care) to help our family SURVIVE in this area that has a much higher cost of living than we are used to.

The problem came when I put it on paper and realized my income requirements were WAY higher than companies are willing to pay for my qualifications for a position. I have a BA, tons of experience and the salary the companies are offering are very reasonable for the job, it just does not fit in with my child care budget (which is more than my mortgage!).

So lets look at the child care issue. My oldest only needs after school care, one twins needs half-day care (he will be in half day special-ed) and the other twin will need full day care. So we are not even talking about three full time kids. I honestly don't know how people do it.

In addition, we do not have anyone here (like family) to help offset the cost of child care so EVERY TIME we do anything without the kids, it is costing us to do so! I am not complaining about having my kids, they are great kids! Plus, I DO gain tremendous satisfaction and joy taking care of my family! I know I am great at my job. Its just that I had the idea a few weeks ago to contribute financially to our family a little bit and have since become quite frustrated that there is NO WAY for me to do it. No one likes to feel like they have don't have options or choices for their lives. I guess its just that is how I am feeling right now.

THE PLAN FOR NOW (and suggestion to others in this predicament): To continue looking for ways to cut back where we can, searching for opportunities to earn extra money where I can and giving my ALL everyday to be the BEST MOM and WIFE I can possibly be!!!
That is really all I can do until they are in school full time, which on the bright side, is ONLY two years away. THEN, look out DC, here I come!!!

Babysitting Solutions

So you found a person willing babysit your multiples, now what do you pay her?

Here is the babysitter pay schedule we use. It is a little complicated, but it has worked for our babysitters. It is designed to keep prices down for you but give the babysitter an opportunity to increase their income as their responsibilities and trustworthiness increase. So at first you may have them baby-sit while you are home or during nap times as you get used to each other. And then they can increase their income as they take on more responsibilities or do extra chores for the children.

I HAD TO set this up on a per child/chore basis because I have three kids (5 and 3 1/2 year old twins), but my mom takes the kids home to Texas 2-3 weeks each during the summer, so sometimes I only have 2 kids. Or, you may need a babysitter to watch only one or two while you take another to an appointment. Plus, I have two that are potty trained and one in pull ups. I have one that showers and dresses himself and two that need help. So that is why I separated all the chores and pay for only what they do.

Always a minimum $6 an hour.
$2 an hour per child while they are sleeping or while you are home.
$4 an hour per child when they are awake.
OR
$5 an hour per child when they are awake if they are in diapers/pull-ups.
$1 EXTRAS (per child):
Putting a child down to sleep/nap
Preparing/serving a meal
Bathe/shower and dressing for bed

Examples:
I am running to an appt. while kids are napping. I am gone an hour. I have two kids that are asleep before the babysitter arrives and stay asleep until I come home. It should only be $4 but I pay the $6 minimum.

My husband and I go out for a date night. We are gone for three hours and three kids are home. Babysitter feeds them all, bathes/dresses two for bed and puts all three to bed. We pay $40 for our date night. (about $13 hour)

This sounds very reasonable considering that some sitters from those babysitting online searches I checked in to charged $10 an hour PER CHILD regardless of what they or the kids were doing or how long they had been babysitting for you. (That would make our 3 hour date night $90!) And I just was not interested in paying $30 for an hour to go to an appt. or grocery shopping with sleeping kids at home. But I am willing to pay more when they have to do more, OF COURSE. PLUS, you would not entrust someone who you just met to bathe your children, so that is a responsibility they earn to increase their income as they stay your babysitter longer and trust is gained.

You can lower your cost or their responsibilities in the beginning by bathing and feeding before you go out or leave later on date nights when it is closer to the kids bedtime.

Like I said it can be complicated, but it works. ALSO, you may want to call Department of Family Services to get the pamphlet on the ages a babysitter must be and the hours they can work depending on the number of children and their ages. This can be helpful in deciding on a babysitter.

Ok, long explanation but I hope this helps.

Check out my new link!

Click here or in my links for a free subscription to Preemie Magazine. Having a preemie or two or more can create so many challenges. Even more than just having multiples can bring. This magazine covers issues about pregnancies, NICU, going home with preemies, SIDS, therapy, and many more. With a free subcription, you have nothing to lose and only knowledge to gain.

I included this link because your chances of having preemies are so much greater when you are expecting multiples. I hope you find it as helpful as I have. Even though my twins are 3 and a half, I find this magazine just as helpful because we still face the challenges that are brought on by them being 2 months premature. Enjoy!

Are they Identical?

What do you think?

A fellow MOM reminded me of something today. When the twins were small, newborn babies and we were out in public, people would ask me "are they identical?" Now, I have BOY/GIRL twins. And, I confess, I usually dressed them alike when they were babies. However, it was always pink and blue outfits. This apprently still happens to new MOMs and even though mine are four years old now, it occationally happens to me. Here is how the conversation would usually go:

Stranger: Can I see your babies?
Me: Sure.

Stranger: Oh they are so cute.
Me: Thanks.

Stranger: Are they twins?
Me: Yes.

Stranger: What kind of twins are they?
Me: (Thinking: Human.) Boy/Girl.

Stranger: Are they Identical?
Me: (Thinking: All except for one major part!) Said: No, they are fraternal

Stranger: (then looking at Caleb and the triple stroller)
Boy, you sure do have your hands full!!!

I would usually walk away with a smile at this point and attempt to finish my errands.

Oh, I know they meant well and to them this was perhaps the only time they had this conversation that day or week. But for me I would hear the "hands full" phrase and have this conversation about ten times during any given trip to the mall or store. I used to say that I wanted to make and where a shirt that read:

YES, they are twins AND YES my hands ARE full!!

Rude? Yeah, I know. And I am too nice of a person to ever have done it. But now that they are older and all about the same size, people think they are triplets. It's ok now, the attention (when they are acting appropriate) can be positive for them and me. People still say, "you have your hands full", it just does not bother as much anymore.

Career Whoa's

It has been a while since I had a full time job (where I actually got paid anyway). But when I did have an 8-5, I worked, I got vacation days, sick days, holidays, etc. I worked when I had to, and when those vacation or holidays came about, I took them. I worked in a college office setting, so only during registration were there any days that I worked over my scheduled hours (we had to register everyone in line regardless of how long it took). So, about 14 working days out of the year, I would have to say "I don't know when I will be home."

So here is my question. Is it "NORMAL" to say "I don't know when I will be home" EVERY SINGLE DAY SOMEONE GOES TO WORK? I feel at some point during the day one must get an inkling as to when one will be done. But some unfortunate souls, this is NOT the case.

Furthermore, if one has a job like this, they should be so abundantly financially compensated for their ridiculous overtime hours that it made it all worth it, RIGHT? But, would any normal, sane person work like that everyday for SALARY!?!?!?!?

THEN, when holidays or vacations are looming in the near future, would this anonymous sane, normal person who works 16-17 hours a day, put in the extra time only to make up for the hours they will soon be missing? Is that REALLY a vacation if you have to make up the hours before and after you take it????

Maybe the working world has changed since I was apart of it. But I just don't think this kind of career life is normal. Your thoughts???

Down by one...

Today was the first day of three weeks I will only have two kids. My mom took BA to Texas with her for summer vacation. It has been a mix of emotions. I miss her terribly already and I know that those feelings will only get stronger the longer she is gone. Yet, it does make life much easier to only have two than three. Which only confirms my thought prior to having children that three is a lifestyle change.

My mom does this with all the kids throughout the year. She will come for a weekend, take a kid home with her for a few weeks. Then she will make another weekend trip, bring back one and take another, and so on. This is a great system for many reasons. It gives me a break by reducing my load. It increases the chances of one on one time with mommy and daddy for the remaining two. It gives the one who goes a chance to live like an only child and get spoiled by grandma and grandpa for a short period of time. And they get to know each child on their own terms. It gives all of us an opportunity to see my mom more often. For the most part, it works out for the best for all.

There is only one down side . The child who goes with my mom is nearly impossible to deal with when they return. I call it detox. I have to spend an equal amount of time to that in which they are gone, when they return, to detox them from the spoiling. They are slowly brought back into a life as a sibling rather than that of an only child. The time spent in detox increases as the children get older. CJ takes much longer than the twins. But as they get older I am sure that will change.

So I am enjoying my break for now and dealing with the heartache from missing my little princess. Yet I have the comfort of knowing she is having the time of her life. It's all good!!

His teeth are where?

Warning: This blog may not be for the queasy.

You may have noticed that BB has his front teeth in the "you don't know me shirt" picture from my first post, yet they are missing in his 3.5 picture with BA. Well, there is a story behind that, as there usually is a story when teeth go missing.

On our September trip to Texas, we stayed at my moms. One night the kids were up late and playing in her living room. All of the sudden we heard a screaming cry that sent chills down my spine. I was outside at the time so I ran in. At first I did not see anything wrong, then a gush of blood began to flow from my baby boy's mouth. It was truly terrifying. I told myself for a split second that mouth injuries bleed more and not to worry until upon further investigation, between our discussions about going to the hospital or now and crying my eyes out, we noticed that 3 of his front teeth were missing. That sealed the deal, we would be heading to the hospital NOW. My husband looked for the teeth at the site of the injury in the living room and found nothing.

So we headed for the nearest children's hospital and waited. Once inside they x-rayed his mouth and stomach looking for the teeth. No luck. They called in a pediatric oral surgeon to do a high level x-ray of his mouth to look for fractures and the teeth. That is when they found them. They had been shoved so far up into his gums they were under his nose. OUCH!!!

Now that they knew where the teeth were, within ten minutes, they put him to sleep and surgically removed the two front teeth. The third tooth we thought was missing had just been slightly pushed up and was hidden by swollen bloody gums. They left that one because it would come back down eventually, which it did I am happy to say.

With a sleepy 3 year old, we headed back to mom's house after 8 hours at the hospital. That is when we pieced together what had happened the best that we could since no adult had seen what actually took place.

The kids were running around and jumping from an antique chair toward a space between the chair and a brick fireplace hearth that is about 1.5 feet high. In an apparent over zealous jump, BB missed his footing, went forward and came down on the top of the brick hearth with his chin. His bottom lip went between his upper and lower front teeth and was cut. The upward force pushed his teeth up into his gums and under his nose. The teeth blocked the space for a few seconds that is why there was a delay is the gush of blood.

For the next few weeks, he looked like Jay Leno. The blow to his chin on the brick caused severe swelling. Not to mention the bruising. I have a photo journal of day by day progress of the bruising. From blue, to purple, to pink, to green, then finally yellow. The pictures above were taken the morning after the accident.

Gruesome, I know, but that is the story of the missing teeth.

The grass is always greener...

These are the A.R.L. Ladies, aka by me, My Girls!!!

I watch my single friends go out several nights a week in their endless attempts to find that right guy (or just hang with the girls). Either way, it is my opinion that he cannot be found in the club scene at all. OK in all fairness, perhaps one in a million find their soulmates there, but it is rare and we know it. Yet that is what keeps the rest going, the hope that the next one will be the exception. Then again, the thrill of the chase is just as exciting isn't it???

I was blessed to find my soulmate at a very young age and marry him. Since I truly love my fabulous A.R.L ladies and as the ONLY, that's right, the ONLY married one in the bunch, it is sometimes painful to watch what guys put my girls through. Admittedly, I am super jealous though. I envy their ability to miss sleep knowing there is always the weekend to catch up. My job is seven days a week. My kids demand breakfast at 8 am no matter what day it is or how late I stayed up the night before. (Kids are funny like that.) I am jealous of their freedom to flirt, have first touches, hugs, kisses, and sleep-overs (with or without "hooking-up"). And as envious as I occasionally get, would I give up my home, husband and beautiful sweet babies??? NEVER!!! Just as long as the A.R.L invite me to tag along occasionally and live vicariously through them, I am HAPPY!! I feel like I get the best of both worlds.

The funny thing is, that whether they admit it or not, and some have: They want what I have, too. They want to find their soulmate, true love, settle down, have a family, and all that jazz. If that is what they want, I truly wish them the fairy tale. I hope they find all the chemistry and passion that I was lucky enough to find. And I hope they know, they are more than welcome to live vicariously through me, as well. I am ALWAYS looking for a good babysitter and would even loan one or two of the kids out for a few hours at a time if they wanted the REAL experience! Ok, not really, but the babysitting offer always stands.

POINT: The grass is always greener on the other side. But because of the understanding and support of my hubby, I get to have the best of both worlds, every once and while. LUCKY ME!!